With some inspiration from my brother, I’ve given pseudonyms for my children taken from different types of poetry. It’s similar to calling them by their first initials because that’s how I chose which types of poetry to use 🙂 I have a special place in my heart for poetry as it relates to my children, because in the earliest days of motherhood, when my oldest refused to sleep and I would pace the house with him to try to calm him down, I found that poetry more than song would relax and console him. So I memorized poetry, almost frantically, in the last few weeks of my maternity leave, so that I could just recite the words to him as we walked, and let the rhythms soothe him. Anyway, on to the introductions!
Rondel (3.5): my first child, the boy who made me a mother, sensitive, empathetic, shy, and silly – the high needs baby who endured my postpartum depression while we endured the sleepless nights and the seemingly irrational tears and needs; who grew into a thoughtful and intelligent, though easily-overwhelmed toddler, learning to navigate a big confusing world with grace and confidence; and is now an imaginative and emotional preschooler constantly asking questions, testing boundaries, and starting to help around the house in meaningful ways. His current loves are books, Duplos, digging, and using tools (especially with Daddy!)
Limerick (2.5): my second boy, who is showing me how love can grow as big as it needs to – he was a determined and persevering baby who never gave up once he’s decided to do something, who wanted to do everything he sees his big brother doing, and who put up with the affection, abuse, and avoidance alternately inflicted upon him by said big brother. As a toddler he’s much the same, although his mischievous side has grown and he’s more likely to antagonize his brother instead of simply adoring him. His current loves are climbing, building patterns and towers, and doing anything that makes Rondel laugh at him.
Aubade (0): my daughter, who I’m still just getting to know, happy and content, observant and curious, interested in objects around her far earlier than her brothers were, ever-ready to break forth in smiles, and possessed of an amazing ability to focus her concentration and attention for long periods of time to the exclusion of the chaos around her. Her current loves are being with Mommy and being outside.